So have you ever been out to the club and you feel like your surrounded by stunning, hot, sexy women or men? It sets the mode for the rest of the night you could say and when everyone around you is stunning its hard to not have a great time! A lot of people stay single for the rest of their lives hopping that they would be able to go out and party every night, take home every women they see, and then next week do it again; and you can but, there are some rules to follow. When you go out no matter if with friends, yourself, or whomever you can always have a great time dance, party, head bang or what ever but when you start trying to take different women home every night well, thats when your starting to become more of a creep and less of a “Rockstar”. Its my opinion that it is better to have one thousand friends half of them women and be liked, than to have a dozen friends and take different women home with you every night. It goes with the saying would you like to meet people have a one night stand and never see them again, or, would you rather meet people and see them every day? The answer for me is simple i would rather meet people and keep them as friends rather then taking home different women because those women aren’t going to be your partner in crime, your party like a “rockstar” buddy or pick up the phone when your having one of those lonely night deals. I guess that brings up the ever so technical question and concern that a lot of men think about on a daily basis and thats; if you have a lot of women friends and you start to find yourself crossing the friends thresh hold and moving on to the areas that are suppose to be out of bounds as a friend. People find that sleeping with your friends would make things awkward and therefor messing up your friend ship, but is there a way to not complicate things?, is there a way to satisfy one another in lonely situations?, and would that complicate things? Some people think that once you sleep with your friends that it opens up more problems and doesn’t add up in the long run, ok so sure I’m not telling you to have “sex” with your friends and then marry them by any means. I am telling you that there is a chance that you would be able to have “sex” with your friend and keep them as a friend. I think a lot of problems people experience is that when they have “sex” with their friends they don’t look at them as a friend any longer, they start to treat them like a girlfriend, or just some chick at that point and thats where things start to fall apart. If you find yourself having “sex” with your friends don’t treat them any different than you have ever treated them, treat them like a friend just one with benefits some good, some bad, but in your case more good than bad. I mean what guy out there doesn’t want a hot best friend to have late night booty calls and then the next day they go out and party with you and they don’t care if you pick up a chick or not. Ok, Ok, i know what your thinking “Thats being a PlayBoy” not a friend, Wrong; its not being a playboy because your going to be completely honest and upfront about everything, you are not going to be playing anyone, i mean how straight forward can you be?
Women have different morals than men have, or do they?, studies show that there are a lot of women out there that want the same thing that men want, a “one night stand”. Some women don’t want to be bothered with all the nonsense and i find that more older women between 35-50 are down with more one night stands than women 18-35. The benefits of having a lot of friends over choosing a different women every night is only to your advantage and will be best for all parties involved. Just remember to not be a creep be a “rockstar”. But remember there is a thin line between not enough and too much. “Dont chase the rabbit to get the tail” wait patiently and when the rabbit comes back by snatch it up before it knows what hit it, if you do it right than the rabbit will come back, do it wrong and it may never come back, but thats a whole nother topic.